With the role of "father" and "mother", parents need to ensure their children are safe, healthy, well fed, fully dressed, and enjoy games they like, go to places they want, go to sleep when tired …
Parents can temporarily measure those needs by these below questions:
- Have you eaten?
- What game did you and your friends play today?
- What toy do you like best for me to give you?
- Tonight, I am incredibly happy to play the role with you, but what do you like best?
- Let's clean the room together!
- Do you need any help from Mom?
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It would be great if parents could have done that. But if that is all that parents have for their children, then somewhere in that love for them is still not sufficient and complete.
A few moments each day is fine, please give up temporarily playing the role!
Kids need more peaceful moments.
Moments for kids to feel the balance between my parents and them.
The moments when parents stay there for their children simply to see, to listen, to touch their children, or to help them do something that does not count.
Quiet and lucid moments together without any care or pursuit of anything other than the present.
Those are immeasurable but indispensable things for complete Presence for each other <3
Ngày: 30/4/2020 - đăng bởi: giangnguyen